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10 Things NOT to say on a First Date

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From the Matchfinder archive. References to site features and some advice may reflect an earlier version of the service. Read our current safety guidance.

10 Things You Should Never Say On A First Date:

1. "I watched this movie with my ex.”

2. "I used to take my ex here a lot."

3. Say "I'll be home by 11, mom" (if you’re a man)

4. "Can you pack up these leftovers for me?" (when leaving a restaurant)

5. "My parents said I have to be home by 10."

6. "Want to come in and meet my parents?"

7. "I’ve felt so much better since I started my medication."

8. "I’ve slept with 12 people, how about you?"

9. "I just broke up with my ex last week."

10. "Could you get the check? I’m broke" (if you’re a man).

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