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Dating & relationships

First-Date Ideas in New Zealand for Singles 35+

Plan a relaxed first catch-up in New Zealand, with public meeting ideas, realistic travel arrangements and an easy alternative if the weather changes.

October 2026 4 min read

Dating & relationships

First Date Do’s and Don’ts

First dates are very frustrating, and it’s very hard to get a second date if you are shy, silent or unprepared. The following are a few things that you can...

April 2017 5 min read

Dating & relationships

Are Dating Complications Inevitable?

This question is asked quite often, but the answer isn’t as straightforward as you may think. Most people would answer “no” to the question. But then again...

April 2017 4 min read

Dating & relationships

Chatroom Dating and Safety Tips

Chatrooms are a good place to meet new people. You may even find the love of your life in a chatroom. The good thing about visiting these rooms is that you...

April 2017 5 min read

Dating & relationships

Don’t be Fooled by Dating Scams

These days, more and more people are using online dating sites to look for romance. It is a billion-dollar industry, and scammers are also using it to thei...

April 2017 4 min read