How do you define being successful with women? Most guys want the opportunity to date any woman that they see, or they want to date as many women as possible.
These are the types of things that guys say when this question is asked. But these are not good answers. Why? This is because the answers are worthless. Even if you could successfully approach a woman and get a date, what happens next? Do you know what to do?
Usually men make two mistakes when it comes to succeeding with women. First, they don’t know what it actually means to be successful with women. Secondly, they base all of their understanding of this subject on what other men know and tell them. They don’t truly know what they want.
Men usually are jealous when other men are successful with women, especially when the women are beautiful. It may take a while to figure out how to be successful with women, but the following tips can probably help you.
Create your Own Definition of Being Successful with Women
Ask yourself, “What does it mean to be successful with women?” Answer this question honestly. Are you able to ask this question on your own? Or do you need someone else’s help to answer the question. Use your own viewpoint, don’t depend on others when creating your own definition.
Now, it’s time to determine what you want. Think about the way that you live. Instead of looking at a cheesy nudie magazine, imagine what would make you happy on a day to day basis. Write down some of the characteristics that you are looking for in a woman. Also, make a list of the things that you don’t like. This tells you what you are looking for and how it will make you happy.
Amazingly, it can be proven that most men want to have a long term relationship with just one amazing woman. Yes, there will always be men who only want to sleep around with every woman that they see, but most men want to settle down with one special woman for the long haul.
Unfortunately, you aren’t going to find that amazing woman tonight. It’ll probably take time and effort. If you want to meet a great woman that is loving, funny, smart, beautiful and emotionally and financially stable, then you’ll have to spend a lot of time in the dating world. In addition, once you find an amazing woman like this, she probably won’t be sitting at home alone. There will be other men that like her as well, and she knows this.
So, once again, do you know what it is to be successful with women? What do you want? How do you want to spend your life? Are you ready?
Make Women Feel the Emotion Called Attraction
A lot of research has done to understand how attraction works. Considering that it is a major part of the dating world, you would think that there are plenty of steps and explanations on how it all works. However, this is not the case. Some would say there aren’t worthwhile books, seminars, websites or audio tapes that explain how attraction works. This is especially true when people compare these explanations with their own knowledge and experience.
Unfortunately, in order to be successful with women, you must understand how attraction works. This doesn’t just apply to physical attraction. You must understand how emotional attraction works too. If a woman isn’t attracted to you, then you’ve got problems. You may look good, have a nice income and have age on your side. But if she isn’t attracted to you, you’ll never be successful. You won’t be able to do anything that makes her feel the emotion of attraction.
Sure, she might fall in love with you as the years go by. But when this happens, this usually isn’t the result of attraction. This happens because she starts to feel affection for you. She’s comfortable with you and is settling for a long term relationship. In addition, this is usually because the man has spent money on gifts through the years. He’s done everything to make her love him, which includes putting her feelings and needs before his own.
Also, the woman in this scenario feels like she has no other options. However, if you know how to make a woman feel the emotion of attraction, you can successfully date her. You get to choose the outcome. A man who knows how to make a woman feel the emotion of attraction is even rarer than a beautiful woman. Ponder on that thought for a few minutes.
Yes, a man who understands how to evoke the emotion of attraction is a rare person indeed. You could even ask a few beautiful women if they’ve known men like this? Ask how many they’ve encountered over the years? They can probably count them all on one hand.
All in all, for a man to make a woman feel the emotion of attraction, he doesn’t have to be a superstar. He doesn’t have to have any special talents, great looks or a fat bank account. Anyone can get these skills. All it takes is a clear understanding of how attraction works. How can you acquire these skills? Well, you are taking the first step right now.