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Dating & relationships

What to Talk about on a First Date

You answer the door for your date, and your voice is stuck in your throat. Wow! He’s very handsome. The two of you go through the motions of being on a dat...

March 2017 6 min read

Dating & relationships

How To Be Black Book Worthy

Many women spend a lot of time and money on their looks, thinking that attracting the guys they’re interested in is all about appearances. While it’s true...

March 2017 4 min read

Dating & relationships

What Women Hate Most About Single Guys

Good looking, unattached women get easily angry over certain things. It means that a lady could take a shine to you in general, but if you are prone to doi...

March 2017 6 min read

Dating & relationships

Dress the Part - Women

The plain, simple truth is that many people dress peculiarly. Perhaps it’s because they simply haven’t got any taste. Of course, maybe they do have taste b...

March 2017 4 min read

Dating & relationships

Making Friends with his Mother

Perhaps I wouldn’t qualify to be a member of MENSA, but if it’s something to do with relationships, that’s a different story. You can take it from me there...

March 2017 6 min read

Dating & relationships

Benefits to Dating Older Men

We all tend to think when we see a young woman with an older guy, that she is a gold digger and that she is just out to get what she can get. Though that m...

March 2017 5 min read

Dating & relationships

6 CHICK FLICKS HE'LL CLICK WITH

Chick flicks have got a lot of bad press. Sometimes, getting a man to watch one of these movies with you can be like trying to pull teeth. It’s not the hig...

March 2017 4 min read

Dating & relationships

5 Types of Men you should avoid Dating

Mummies’ boys Mummies’ boys either still live with their mothers or live in the immediate vicinity so they can run home whenever they feel the need to. He...

March 2017 4 min read

Dating & relationships

10 SIGNS YOU'RE WITH THE WRONG MAN

“Stupid Cupid, stop picking on me!” The lines of a famous song, and lines which are all too apt to many women – the many women who, time after time, are di...

March 2017 5 min read

Dating & relationships

12 Top safety tips for women when dating

Going to meet a man for the first time is always exciting. All that expectation and those pre-date dreams are all just waiting to be realised. However, in...

March 2017 3 min read

Dating & relationships

WHAT WOMEN DON'T WANT TO HEAR MEN SAY

How out there doesn’t like to read a cool top ten list? Everyone has a love for original ones. This week, I thought I’d deliver a really special treat: two...

March 2017 4 min read

Dating & relationships

WHAT WOMEN WISH MEN KNEW

One of the best things about writing on the topic of relationships is that it gives me a chance to speak up and say some things which aren’t said often eno...

March 2017 4 min read