Most women automatically know when they’re meeting a sexually confident man. They can tell just by seeing or talking to you. As a result, they unconsciously determine if you are someone they want to become sexual with, and it’s done within a matter of minutes. How? Basically, it done via the use of body language and voice tone. We know that attraction isn’t a product of choice and we also know we can generalize the following:
1.If you don’t know which type of body language conveys that you are the type of guy that women are unconsciously attracted to, you’re probably not doing things correctly.
2. What you say doesn’t really matter. It is the way that you say them that matters. It is a combination of body language and your voice that does the trick.
3. You can learn how to become the type of man that women are unconsciously attracted to by using your body language and voice. Once you’ve learn this skill, it’ll be easier to attract women. Unfortunately, most men try too hard to be macho and most women just waste away waiting for attractive men to come along. The men who need help with these skills are not getting help, and they are not improving. The bad thing is if you don’t know if you possess this type of talent, chances are you don’t. The goal is to learn how it works and use it once you’ve got it.
Most men think that they need fancy pickup lines to meet women. Pickup lines are totally useless if you don’t understand how body language works. After you learn how it all works, you’ll discover that if you have the right body language and voice tone, you can say almost anything to women and attract them.
If you are like most guys, you probably want to know why this happens and how to do it. Right? Well, if you really want to know what is going on, you should check out my new CD Audio Program where I try to explain why this happens. But for right now, I’m going to focus more on the “how to” aspect. The following are things that you can do to attract more women right now:
Hold Longer Eye Contact
If an attractive woman thinks you’re attractive and she looks in your direction, do not look away. A lot of guys are insecure, and they don’t hold eye contact when a woman looks at them. Don’t do this. If you want to talk to her, you have to show at the very beginning that you are a self-confident male who is also interested in her.
Practice this skill by walking through the mall and looking directly at every woman who passes by. Walk into each store and hold eye contact with each woman that you walk by. Hold eye contact until she’s the one that looks away. Now the trick is to not look like a serial killer while you’re practicing this little exercise. Don’t open your eyes too wide or exhibit a crazy smile during the process. That’ll just look creepy. Just learn how to hold eye contact with women until they look away.
Exhibit Confident Posture
A lot of men walk around in a manner that does not project confidence. The men who get the most women are the ones who walk around like they are the dominant males in the room. The act like they are kings. What type of posture attracts women? Suck in your stomach. Hold up your head. Pull back your shoulders and arch your back. Stand, walk or sit like you are the most confident person in the world.
This might seem like a weird thing to do at first, but you’ll get the hang of it. Most importantly, you’ll start attracting more women. Understand that attractive women don’t want to meet just an average guy. Start carrying yourself like a dominant male and attractive women will start flocking all over you, and they’ll do it unconsciously.
Use Slow, Calculated Moves
Everyone has probably watched a couple of James Bond movies. He always knows what to do in any situation. He never fidgets or acts nervous, because he isn’t. James Bond is a naturally cool dominate male that women love. His movements are slow, calculated and extremely cool. Learn how to turn your head slowly like Bond. He also has a way of changing up his facial expressions very slowly. Learn how to make these same types of movements. It shows everyone you are a confident man who is comfortable in his own skin.
Speak in a Confident Tone
Men who have shaky and squeaky voices don’t exude confidence, and women are not attracted to them. If you want attractive women to love you, then you’ll have to learn how Barry White did it. Women loved the sexy bass in his voice. He just melted their hearts.
Try to project a deeper voice by speaking from your chest and stomach. This adds more bass to your voice. Also, learn how to speak a little slower, which helps you to articulate your words much better. In addition, learn how to effectively add a few pauses to your conversation. It adds anticipation and makes women wait in excitement for every word.
Unfortunately, most men talk too fast because they afraid to talk to women because they lack self-esteem. As a result, they are nervous, and it shows in their voice. Don’t fall into this trap. Learn how to relax and speak in a confident tone of voice. This will the attention of attractive women. Learn how to be comfortable in your own skin. You’ll discover that those silent awkward moments with women will turn into confident happy ones.